Friday, 26 August 2016

Here's Your Freedom to DO it Now...


Last night, I experienced an epiphany over a Skype meeting in Canada. Ha Ha Ha...I say "In Canada" because it was a very important meeting with two respected canucks - my good friend, founder of THE GOOD RADIO NETWORK and co-author, Frankie Picasso and the Amazing Canadian Author of the popular "Shark Assault", Marketing Maestro & TV Host - Peter Jennings whom I have come to adore.

So since its two of them against one of me...and I'm in Nigeria. Canada takes the win for venue. LOL.

And as we talked about strategy for our upcoming book and finding the brand value proposition for "I BARED MY CHEST: 21 Women Share Their Naked Truth to being Unstoppable...". It dawned on me how great, this project we are creating, with these 19 other amazing women - truly is.

And how grateful I am to be surrounded by outstanding women - like Frankie, who motivate me to ACT, even in spite of myself. And to think we can act'ually use this book to not only help the downtrodden, but also many people like us, get their FREEDOM back.

Whether its the freedom to THINK, the freedom to ASPIRE, to have a voice and to SPEAK. The freedom to LOVE and be loved. The freedom to move and accept other people's CHOICE. The freedom to be seen, respected and not dismissed. The Freedom to Grow, be BOLD and question limiting beliefs. The Freedom to ACT and even IMPACT, to build regardless of obstacles in your PATH.

And to think of the freedom that we have given ourselves to DO this together across continents, to be bold and share our stories, journey and experiences in the most NAKED way possible.

I decided to share a tiny excerpt from my chapter in this book, something that might hopefully motivate you to go ahead and DO IT, whatever it is.




"I wish I had realised long before, that it took ACTION to get things done. For a very long time, I've been seeking out people who only make me FEEL better, instead of surrounding myself with people who actually make me DO better.

As I STRIP down my covers, I realise that 'Feeling Good', Is NOT the same as DOING Good.

You can run your fingers down my spine, all you want...or stick it between my legs and make me MOAN, but if WE can't build a bridge to the freaking sound of my GROAN, our verses have lost track, of what it could really become.

Feeling good is great alright. But GROWTH truly comes from doing. Its about movement, and movement comes with ACTION.

Everything in this world comes right down to (ACT)ion.

You can "feel" for mankind all you want. But it's meaningless if you do nothing to help.

You can "feel" LOVE for someone, but it's pointless, if you DO NOTHING to show it, or prove it.

You can have all the good intentions... but only your ACTIONS will prove where your heart really is.

You can feel greatness in your pulse, and continue to feel it...While the bold ones actually go out and DO something to MAKE it HAPPEN.

You can surround yourself with people who talk and talk...and TALK about all the bright-shiny-incredible IDEAS they have...but will NEVER move themselves an inch close, to DOING something about it.

Or you can DUMP the 'Feelers' and align yourself with the DOERS who have set a high standard for themselves, even if you have to spend forever modelling how they glide.

Believe me, there's nothing wrong in walking down someone else's path, just as long as you remind yourself to leave YOUR own foot print as you walk.

I had to STOP and ask myself, if the person(s) around me have what it takes to bring out the BEST in me on all levels...and not just the best in me - SCREAMING in the fucking bedroom.

Did I want to keep hanging out with 'Feelers' and not Doers...and breath in the stench, from my own hot mess?

Am I some lazy woman who wants - a Lazy Relationship, a Lazy Career, a Lazy Life...And a Free Pass on a Realllllyyy Smooth Ride to NOWHERE?

Do they fan the embers of my weaknesses or Do they CAPITALISE on All my STRENGTHS?

Now I know better, I know that whoever I choose, wherever I choose them...The Right Man or Woman in whatever capacity they come, MUST...take ME all the way from Good to GREAT or its a Fuckin' Wrap!"
- (culled from my upcoming book w/ 21 Amazing Women - #IBaredMyChest...)

P.S: So take a really good look at the people in your life...in your circle right now. Are they taking YOU from good to GREAT? Are they making you ACT right? Are they giving you the freedom you need to blossom?

Okay, I'm giving you permission to chuck them away right now - But wait! Not before you tell me what you think.I want to hear from you.

Leave a comment, a voice message or send me an email. I want to know if you are surrounded with feelers or with doers.

Stay Authentic Truth-Seekers & Keep Winning!

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