Tuesday, 5 January 2016

GUEST POST: Not Happy New Year... It's Happy New Orientation!


A few days ago, I received a new year MESSAGE from a friend that caught my attention...Oh yeah, he's one of those long winded writers like myself, whose deep message sends you on an introspective journey to Timbuktu and back - An example of when I was playing the lead character in one of his movies "Heroes Bride" years ago...Trying to imagine myself stuck in a real world of emotional confusion just like my character was, especially at a point in my life when I was really still trying to find myself. And I had to chew all those deep EMOTIONAL lines and somehow bring it to life.

To me Elimihe Osezuah is a master WORDSMITH... but to some, he's an entrepreneur in the motion picture content sector in Nigeria. With an 11-year career across television content writing, producing and directing, client servicing, business content development at various organisations like DBN TV (1999), African Children Broadcasting Network, Nigeria (1999), Media International Limited (2000-2002), Rosabel Leo Burnett (2002-2010) behind him as far back as 2011 when he founded ELose Plus Media Limited , Ose (as he generally called) has a passion for two things: the accomplished motion picture, and a commitment to directing people to the latent , yet super power within them, which he identifies as the power of BEING. So once, I read through his incredible new year message...I decided it would be selfish of me not to share this with all Ye! ABC Truth-Seekers. So here's Today's Guest Post by Osezuah Elimihe... Enjoy!

Hey! It's Happy New Orientation

The New Year you looked forward to for that amazing performance and manifestation is HERE. You have just expended two days of it and the third is about gone, too. Do you feel renewed? Do you feel transformed, or are you still the same person with frustrated responses to that key, which refuses to open that lock as fast as you envisaged, the same person feeling disappointed by everything around him/her, the fellow who's let down by people closest to him/her?

The one that never seems to find life fulfilling enough as he/she sees others doing so well while he/she is just getting along at the human fringes, or working so hard and never attaining the dream life? If yes, then welcome to the dangerous spiral of negativity clan. You are not alone, over 95% of humanity lives here, that is why such dangerous and accursed phrases like: 'No Pain, No Gain', 'You Can't Have it All', 'Life' s Not a Bed of Roses', ' Life' s Hard for the Good', 'It' s Never Easy', 'Uneasy Lies the Head that Wears the Crown' 'Life Is Tough'.

Now, let's take a look at your last efforts : You were at the church/mosque/temple on the 31st,you may have even fasted hours, or days into the New Year, you were resolved and fervently prayed to turn things around for the better.

I know a Dear friend whose Mac charger blew up on the very first day of this January! That's a mean setback for anyone who knows what a Mac charger goes for especially these days of the free fall of the Naira against the dollars! Is this not bad for this guy? Wait, Is your Normal old years' routine and accidents reoccurring over again? I asked my friend what he felt about the loss of his Mac charger on the first day of the year. His answer was, 'I smell a new Mac, and a new charger for the old Mac.' Trust me, new macs smell so good! What an attitude statement from my dear friend! Can you feel him? He's certainly not the lower type. Attitude is everything. How do you feel: that you just may not be able to turn life around to your dream station, that you're just you and not that grand personality you envisaged in the last days of the year?

Many single guys are getting phone calls from single ladies they had not heard from since the last year began, ditto for single ladies receiving phone calls from guys who had gone off their radar for months and sometimes years, and they are all willing to make a super commitment, but trust me within the next few weeks everything returns to normal. CHANGE DOES NOT COME FROM THE OUTSIDE. The real change is from INSIDE YOU. I tell you what, there are two causes of retrogression: 1, Projection and 2, Mental Misadventure. Solve these problems and you will not need to bother about success and growth. We spent a great part of last year discussing mental misadventure in my Monday inner Game Circle Classes and whatsapp group. While Projection is something you might find new, but I imagine every student of Psychology has an idea of what it means.

The best way I can describe the phenomenon of Projection is: you always see in yourself what you imagine others are thinking about you, and you see in others what you think about them. In other words what you see about others and about yourself most of the time is not real. Your feeling about how ugly, how poor, how broke, how weak, how fearful, how ignorant you are is not real. It comes from projection. This Projection leads to bad thoughts and emotions which in themselves become mental Misadventure.

Everything negative either comes from the past or the future, but the past and the future, just like the imagination of what people think about you, does not exist. Like the New Year, it is all a convenience label for diversion. The real thing is ORIENTATION. There is no new year, only new orientation. I leave you with a quote from the late Archbishop Benson Idahosa, 'If you change your orientation, God will change your situation'. Now what is this word, ORIENTATION? Simply put, it is the way we look at things. Wayne Dyer once said, 'if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change'. So Happy New Orientation!
Hahaha! I agree Absolutely! But that's my opinion! What do you think Lovelies? Feel free to EXPRESS Your Thoughts!

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