Sunday, 2 March 2014

Saturday Love Connection...

Its Saturday and I'm stuck somewhere in between recovering my health, a messed up internet network, my guest post author who suddenly bailed on me, an audio app that suddenly went beserk, some computer java scripts I'm yet to crack and oh that big bottle of cold larger I desperately need (yes, I said LARGER...sue me!)...Pheeww! All in a bid to frustrate my efforts in building this brand.

But as a stubborn and tenacious woman, I have refused to let any of the challenges get in the way of the "LOVE-CONNECTION" I have started. So here's me sharing some 'thoughts' for the ladies and the potential men in their lives:

A) A philosopher was once asked what was the first thing necessary to win the love of a woman, and he answered, "Opportunity". So with a 'woman' make good use of every opportunity. It could just be the last chance you get.

B) Dating is like 'auditioning' for a role..so if he or she is bad in auditions, clearly he/she do NOT deserve the ROLE of your "Husband/Wife".

C) A man should be pursuing you, courting you, earning you. You are a prize to be WON, not a 'chore' to be done. Don't let him ever make you feel like you are one. And once you're won, be more than a TROPHY. Wink!

D) A man is only 'truly' a man when he wins the LOVE of a "good woman", earns her RESPECT and keeps her TRUST. Err...Yes! Trust! Now, that's too much work for a cheap man! Hahahah!

E) No man should EVER make his 'woman' feel like she's in competition with another woman. PERIOD! Well...they still sell "ota-pia-pia"... and oh I recommend its 'use' on 'HIM'. Not her!

F) You can't always control who you LOSE your heart to. But you CAN control who you GIVE it to. There's a difference. CHOICE! You dig?!

G) You can be 'strong' and 'independent' and still believe in fairytales. Cinderella was QUITE the fearless female. Remember her story? Noooo!, not the part of the glass slippers...the part where she cleans up after everyone. He he he.

H) As difficult as it may be, don't bring 'ghosts' from your past into the present. You have to love like you've never been hurt EVER. Ask the toilet flies you shoo away how they do it! Yes!

I) If He feels wrong for you, then he IS wrong for you. Not settling might make for a little loneliness now...but see it as, you buying time to find true love...or better yet, let him pay for your time (its called the MUMU button) Lol.

J) Only a man who's not ashamed to love you, not afraid to stand by you, is willing to fight for you and ready to take a chance with you... despite your 'shortcomings' DESERVES you..Eh! till then (all na audition...he he he)

P.S: People come, people go. Still, What's meant to be will find a way and the 'right' ones will always stay....Enjoy Your Saturday Lovelies! Kisses!

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