Tuesday, 18 February 2014

The Dating Game...

I get a message from a close female friend..."I'm in a dilemma. I need to see you" so I panick because I think something is wrong. Then, I ask what the problem is... She says, we need to speak in person...so I push for a little hint (Trust me na. I'm a curious cat. Don't ever try dangling succulent gist in front of me, in a bid to tease me and hold it back. I will pounce on you and squeeze until you spill some juice...) Lol.

Anyway, the long story cut short...my friend is in a dilemma over two men. Well, we are yet to have 'the talk' but I'm a little biased already because I know the one she's with loves her stupid...I mean like 'good' stupid. And at the end of the day, the one who gives themselves sincerely and completely is the only one who deserves us, hands down...but eh! All I talk na be grammar abi? It still doesn't stop the decision of choosing 'who' to be with from being so complicated. Even if someone like my friend has narrowed their options.

Do you choose the one that excites you even if they aren't stable? Do you chose the one that tolerates you even on your bad days? Do you chose the one that's emotionaly available? Do you chose the one that's good to you Or do you choose the one you've known the very longest? The one who gives you money, great sex or something that looks like love...

Let's be honest for one minute. Men use 'love' to get 'sex' from women and Women use 'sex' to get 'love' from men...Yes its true! Women think if they SCREW the hell out of him...He may become attached and grow to LOVE them and Men know if they drop the 'L' word, BOOM!! we turn to 'pudding' ready to give them the very thing they truly want, SEX. But what both sexes have failed to realise, is that 'DATING' is a big set up.

A massive set up of 'games'. The game of 'Hit n Miss', 'Luck and Chance', 'Try it out for size', 'Use it and toss it'... and the only real winners are those who come out losing hands down, but learning in the process. that God is the only reflection and source of true lasting love...

And by that 'He' is supposed to be the foundation upon which every relationship should be built, or it will definitely crumble. The problem with 'LOVE' is that you can choose to love whoever you want, but remember to keep it in mind, so also can they... And it may not even be you.

But if you hand over your heart to God, he will place it in the hands of the one who's truly deserving of you (mind, body and spirit). Someone who will guard your heart with their lives, stand by you no matter how tough you are, and love you so much so, you will never have to worry about being used or abused ever again. Enjoy Your Tuesday Lovelies. Kisses!

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